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It’s easy to roll your eyes at Valentine’s Day. Sure, you should be gifting flowers and celebrating the love you have with your significant other all year long, and the holiday’s mere existence might just be a ploy to sell greeting cards, but with the right attitude, V-day can be a wondrous celebration of love for yourself and for others. And there’s no better way to show your love than with immeasurable amounts of sexual satisfaction.
It’s why this February 14th, you should give the gift of sexier V-day sex with new sex toys and accessories. Below, you’ll find stimulating toys and vibrators, orgasm-enhancing oils, massage candles, bondage accessories, post-coital cleanup essentials and more fun, sensual goodies you and your partner will enjoy.
Dame Aer Suction Toy
Female-founded sexual wellness brand Dame recently added a new toy to its collection of pleasure-gap-closing, easy-on-the-eyes sexual wellness products. The “Aer” is a suction toy that utilizes pressure-wave technology to induce rhythmic air pulses, mimicking oral stimulation. The cute anbd uniquely thrilling medical-grade silicone toy is 100% waterproof, features quiet suction and five patterns and five arousing intensities.
Small Packages Valentine’s Day Box
The perfect gift for those of us who would like to plan a sexy date night at home but are too lazy, disorganized or terrified of our inability to think creatively under pressure to put said date night together. Small Packages has taken care of the legwork for us, proffering a curated kit featuring everything from infused cocktail cubes to fancy Mast Brothers chocolate to a massage oil candle and massage stone to a set of (very well-reviewed) cheeky Truth or Dare cards from the pleasure experts at Unbound. The order in which you deploy the box’s contents is up to you, we’re predicting an overwhelmingly positive result regardless. Bonus: use code INSIDE for 10% off across the board.
Emojibator Orville Anal Vibrator
Butt play can be daunting for first-time players, but with the Orville Anal Vibrator from Emojibator, you or a partner can reach new sensations with ease. With 10 vibration settings (including a whisper mode), this smooth-feeling vibrator fits comfortably for fun new experiences.
Foria Intimacy Botanical Vape Pen with CBD
Foria offers a collection of 100% plant-based and organic hemp products for intimacy and everyday well-being, including a couple of our favorite sexual wellness products, the Awaken Arousal Oil and Intimacy Natural Lubricant with CBD. Back in November, the CBD sexual wellness brand launched a CBD vape pen sourced from USDA Organic certified hemp. The incredibly sleek-looking pen is designed to help alleviate stress and enhance intimacy during sex.
Journelle Charlotte Short Slip
Just a slinky, silky little slip that does double duty as lingerie and sexy sleepwear. The perfect kind of in-between lingerie for when your lady doesn’t want to go for the whole elaborate corset and garter belt getup (or wait for you to figure out how to take it off) but still wants to slip into something more comfortable.
Wand by We-Vibe™
The iconic vibrator style is an icon for a reason. Wand vibrators offer powerful, seamless sensations thanks to their easy-to-hold design, and the Wand by premium sex toy brand We-Vibe is no different. The body massager features a cordless, ergonomic design with a flexible head that moves with her for easy play and comes with two attachments, so you both can venture into new, heightened sensations.
maude Wipe Compressed Towels
Make post-coital cleanup easy (and biodegradable) with maude’s Wipe Compressed Towels. Ideal for those on-the-go, just add water and these reusable towels quickly expand for even quicker, skin-softening cleanup.
Crave Cuffs
Crafted from genuine black leather and featuring an adjustable stainless steel chain, these cuffs from Crave will help you add some sophisticated submission to your proceedings.
Cake His Solo Play Duo Kit
Let’s hear it for the boys — the single ones that is — this Valentine’s Day. Groovy sexual wellness brand Cake sells a variety of lubes that are formulated for specific kinds of play. The solo play kit for him includes the brand’s So-Low Lotion, a thick, creamy coconut oil lubricant that transforms into a smooth, gliding lotion, plus Cake’s pH-balanced, honeysuckle-infused wipes for easy, breezy cleanup.
Agent Provocateur Lindie Set
Luxury British lingerie Brand Agent Provocateur offers stunning, well-made intimates you can seriously never go wrong gifting. The Lindie set, in particular, is a delicate, ultra-fine yet wildly sexy ensemble starring a wispy underwired demi cup plunge bra, thong or full brief panty and a sultry suspender to tie it all together.
Her Highness Pleasure Oil
Her Highness worked with a professional female herbalist to produce an “orgasm enhancer.” Made in California, this alluring Oil encompasses hemp-derived CBD, a South American medicinal plant extract known for increasing wetness and a dash of extra virgin olive oil to deliver a muscle relaxing, wetter-than-ever pleasure oil.
Silk Sheet Set by THXSILK
One easy way to upgrade your Valentine’s Day sex? Doing it on silk sheets. Silk pillowcases may be all the rage right now for their hair and skincare benefits, but giving your entire sleep setup the silk treatment can really elevate your sex (and sleep) life. Just don’t slide off the bed.
LELO LOKI
The LOKI from Swedish high-tech sex toy brand LELO targets the prostate with precision for bigger, more mind-numbing orgasms. The smooth, curved design is perfect during solo or couples play to get to those hard-to-reach angles and includes six different settings plus a fully waterproof casing, so you reach next-level climaxes in more adventurous places.
Bracli Vienna Thong by Bare Necessities
A pearl thong is like three Valentine’s Day gift staples in one: jewelry, sex toys and lingerie. This black lace number makes for an elegant addition to any woman’s lingerie drawer, but the pearl G-string adds an extra sexy element that gives an otherwise understated piece of lingerie an erotic upgrade. It’s classic, sexy and just a little bit dirty.
Mommenpop Spritz Kit
Skip the boring champagne and go for something orange. Blood orange that is. The Mommenpop Spritz Kit comes with two 750 mL bottles of the California brand’s rich, earthy Blood Orange and refreshing Sparkling Rosé. Toast them separately or mixed together, creating a juicy, bright citrus aperitif — one made with locally-sourced organic ingredients.
Male Power Shoulder Harness with C-Ring Waist Band Black
Bondage is a two-way street, and it’s about time you cop some tantalizing gear for yourself. This stretchy but form-fitting harness and belt includes O-rings and a cock ring to maximize pleasure and can be easily attached to other bondage accessories.
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